Have you ever felt that - You are never good enough to receive love? As what It seems every time you look at yourselves in the mirror, one big body comes into shape - out of shape.
Have you ever felt that your body is out of shape or (bigger than one’s visual frame) for one’s eyes to attract?
‘First impression counts’ - could have a twisted interpretation of how the environment perceives your physicality first thing a person sees you is just as one big body. However, whereas, in truest reality general social life, great bodies for of men / women are most desired.
“ Because you are fat” - the phrase we hardly hear as what we do know it is socially unacceptable . Moreover, such exchanges from the different genders are so common that we are negligent towards the each other’s emotions. However so, it could it be a form of denial of someone’s to reject a person whose body is out of shape?
So here’s a question, Are you? - Are you out of shape that the only nicest thing someone says about you “ you are so nice and a great friend”. Never there will be someone who will actually like you or fall for you because of your body shape. But here’s another thought, don’t you ever want to do something about your body shape be fit and tone up? Are you the type of person that you believe that you should be loved or liked by someone for who you are regardless?
The point here is - being out of shape. ( Let's not get distracted ) Yes, we all do deserve to be loved because of who we are. Ask yourself some questions, why are you out of shape? Is it because of your eating habits or is it because of genetics (something to blame on easily without feeling bad) or you just hate exercising? After having self-thoughts why are you out of shape, do you look in the mirror with love or hate? Because it is you, your are looking at. So yes, You may have a good heart possibly bigger hearts than those who have the ideal society body shape. But remember what I have asked you, “ Are you the type of person that you believes that you should be loved or liked by someone for who you are regardless ?" So why whine when there’s no one out there who compliments you because after all you want people to look into your heart not body shape. So if it is your body shape is an issue for you but your caring heart isn’t and people love you because you have a good heart is not good enough , ain’t it?
let’s say,for instance, you have not experienced first love due to your body shape and leading to less confidence in yourself to be out there.
Do you even know what love is? the real definition of love? sure thing, everyone has a different interpretation of the word love but can you imply your own interpretation of love into accepting yourselves? if so, how do you know that you are? Do you look at yourself in the mirror with great pride and tell yourself that you feel good about your body - “ i really look and feel good with my body” or if so do you self regulate your emotions and thoughts?
You should be out there and walking with pride that you do carry a body out of shape and let it be something that is socially accepted. Make a change of something ugly into something beautiful because in the end it is how you carry yourself as a unique individual . You show others you love yourself of who you are gradually the self confidence will show. you will never know there is some people out there find it attractive. However, if you look at yourself in the mirror with hate, do something about it.
The key is to find love in you before others attempt to love you of who you are.
Have a great self - explore
xxoo
Have you ever felt that your body is out of shape or (bigger than one’s visual frame) for one’s eyes to attract?
‘First impression counts’ - could have a twisted interpretation of how the environment perceives your physicality first thing a person sees you is just as one big body. However, whereas, in truest reality general social life, great bodies for of men / women are most desired.
“ Because you are fat” - the phrase we hardly hear as what we do know it is socially unacceptable . Moreover, such exchanges from the different genders are so common that we are negligent towards the each other’s emotions. However so, it could it be a form of denial of someone’s to reject a person whose body is out of shape?
So here’s a question, Are you? - Are you out of shape that the only nicest thing someone says about you “ you are so nice and a great friend”. Never there will be someone who will actually like you or fall for you because of your body shape. But here’s another thought, don’t you ever want to do something about your body shape be fit and tone up? Are you the type of person that you believe that you should be loved or liked by someone for who you are regardless?
The point here is - being out of shape. ( Let's not get distracted ) Yes, we all do deserve to be loved because of who we are. Ask yourself some questions, why are you out of shape? Is it because of your eating habits or is it because of genetics (something to blame on easily without feeling bad) or you just hate exercising? After having self-thoughts why are you out of shape, do you look in the mirror with love or hate? Because it is you, your are looking at. So yes, You may have a good heart possibly bigger hearts than those who have the ideal society body shape. But remember what I have asked you, “ Are you the type of person that you believes that you should be loved or liked by someone for who you are regardless ?" So why whine when there’s no one out there who compliments you because after all you want people to look into your heart not body shape. So if it is your body shape is an issue for you but your caring heart isn’t and people love you because you have a good heart is not good enough , ain’t it?
let’s say,for instance, you have not experienced first love due to your body shape and leading to less confidence in yourself to be out there.
Do you even know what love is? the real definition of love? sure thing, everyone has a different interpretation of the word love but can you imply your own interpretation of love into accepting yourselves? if so, how do you know that you are? Do you look at yourself in the mirror with great pride and tell yourself that you feel good about your body - “ i really look and feel good with my body” or if so do you self regulate your emotions and thoughts?
You should be out there and walking with pride that you do carry a body out of shape and let it be something that is socially accepted. Make a change of something ugly into something beautiful because in the end it is how you carry yourself as a unique individual . You show others you love yourself of who you are gradually the self confidence will show. you will never know there is some people out there find it attractive. However, if you look at yourself in the mirror with hate, do something about it.
The key is to find love in you before others attempt to love you of who you are.
Have a great self - explore
xxoo
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